It’s been a year since your wedding, one of the happiest days of your life. Your big day is beginning to become a distant yet wonderful memory and married life has now begun. They say the first year of marriage can be tough but also completely affirming. I’ve been really happily married for over eight years however I was married to someone else for a very short time, many years ago (I call it my starter marriage!). That marriage lasted little over a year and that experience at the time was one of the toughest, most challenging and painful moments of my life.